Delete yourself from data brokers
Data brokers buy, scrape and sell your name, addresses, phone numbers, relatives and shopping habits. Advertisers (Meta included) match against those lists. Services like Incogni, DeleteMe and Cloaked charge a subscription to send opt-outs and hand out masked emails. Everything they do, you can do for free. It just takes an afternoon.
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What the paid services do, and the free way
Paid services are worth it if your time is worth more than the fee, especially for repeat removals. They don't have special powers: they use the same opt-out forms and privacy laws you can.
| Service | Price | What it does | Free equivalent |
|---|---|---|---|
| Incogni | Subscription | Sends automated deletion requests to a fixed list of brokers and re-sends them on a schedule. | Letter generator + opt-out checklist, repeated quarterly |
| DeleteMe | Subscription | Staff find your listings on people-search sites and remove them, with reports. | Opt-out checklist + Google Results about you |
| Cloaked | Subscription | Masked emails, phone numbers and cards per site, plus broker removal. | Free aliases and virtual numbers |
| Optery | Free scan Paid removal | Shows screenshots of where you're listed; paid plans remove them. | Use the free scan to find listings, then opt out yourself |
| EasyOptOuts | Low-cost yearly | Automated opt-outs at a fraction of the big names' price. | The cheapest middle ground if you'd rather not DIY |
| California DROP | Free | One state-run request to every registered data broker, repeated by law every 45 days. | It is the free option. California residents only. |
Removal checklist
Ticks are saved in this browser only. Opt-out pages move around; if a link breaks, search for the broker's name plus "opt out", or check the Big Ass Data Broker Opt-Out List, which is kept up to date by volunteers.
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1. Mask first, so it doesn't refill
Removal is pointless if every new account hands out your real email and phone again. A different alias per site also tells you exactly who leaked or sold you. This is the Cloaked part, free.
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DuckDuckGo Email Protection (unlimited, free) · Firefox Relay (free tier) · SimpleLogin (free tier) · addy.io (free tier, open source)
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Google Voice (US, free)
2. One-shot free tools
3. Opt out of the big people-search sites
Search each site for yourself first and copy your listing's URL; most forms ask for it. Use an alias email for the confirmation link. Never upload ID unless the law in your area requires it for that request.
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USPhoneBook · Nuwber · That's Them · PeekYou
4. Marketing data brokers
You'll never see these companies' websites, but they supply the audience segments behind most targeted ads.
5. Repeat
Deletion request letter generator
This is what Incogni sends for you. Fill in only what brokers already have on you; giving them more data to "find" you defeats the point. Nothing you type here is saved or sent anywhere. It stays in this tab until you close it.
After you send it: keep a copy with the date. Under GDPR they have one month to respond; under California law, 45 days. If they ignore you, you can complain to your data protection authority (EU/UK) or your state attorney general (US). This page is information, not legal advice.