Step 03 · Reset

Delete yourself from data brokers

Data brokers buy, scrape and sell your name, addresses, phone numbers, relatives and shopping habits. Advertisers (Meta included) match against those lists. Services like Incogni, DeleteMe and Cloaked charge a subscription to send opt-outs and hand out masked emails. Everything they do, you can do for free. It just takes an afternoon.

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What the paid services do, and the free way

Paid services are worth it if your time is worth more than the fee, especially for repeat removals. They don't have special powers: they use the same opt-out forms and privacy laws you can.

Paid removal and masking services compared with free equivalents
ServicePriceWhat it doesFree equivalent
IncogniSubscriptionSends automated deletion requests to a fixed list of brokers and re-sends them on a schedule.Letter generator + opt-out checklist, repeated quarterly
DeleteMeSubscriptionStaff find your listings on people-search sites and remove them, with reports.Opt-out checklist + Google Results about you
CloakedSubscriptionMasked emails, phone numbers and cards per site, plus broker removal.Free aliases and virtual numbers
OpteryFree scan Paid removalShows screenshots of where you're listed; paid plans remove them.Use the free scan to find listings, then opt out yourself
EasyOptOutsLow-cost yearlyAutomated opt-outs at a fraction of the big names' price.The cheapest middle ground if you'd rather not DIY
California DROPFreeOne state-run request to every registered data broker, repeated by law every 45 days.It is the free option. California residents only.

Removal checklist

Ticks are saved in this browser only. Opt-out pages move around; if a link breaks, search for the broker's name plus "opt out", or check the Big Ass Data Broker Opt-Out List, which is kept up to date by volunteers.

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1. Mask first, so it doesn't refill

Removal is pointless if every new account hands out your real email and phone again. A different alias per site also tells you exactly who leaked or sold you. This is the Cloaked part, free.

  • DuckDuckGo Email Protection (unlimited, free) · Firefox Relay (free tier) · SimpleLogin (free tier) · addy.io (free tier, open source)

  • Google Voice (US, free)

2. One-shot free tools

  • Open DROP

  • Results about you

  • Permission Slip

  • OptOutPrescreen.com · Do Not Call Registry

  • Optery free scan

3. Opt out of the big people-search sites

Search each site for yourself first and copy your listing's URL; most forms ask for it. Use an alias email for the confirmation link. Never upload ID unless the law in your area requires it for that request.

4. Marketing data brokers

You'll never see these companies' websites, but they supply the audience segments behind most targeted ads.

5. Repeat

Deletion request letter generator

This is what Incogni sends for you. Fill in only what brokers already have on you; giving them more data to "find" you defeats the point. Nothing you type here is saved or sent anywhere. It stays in this tab until you close it.

Where you live
Your details

Use an alias you can switch off afterwards.

One per line. Only list what they likely already hold.

Look for "privacy", "do not sell" or "your privacy choices" in the company's footer.

Ask them to
Open in email app

After you send it: keep a copy with the date. Under GDPR they have one month to respond; under California law, 45 days. If they ignore you, you can complain to your data protection authority (EU/UK) or your state attorney general (US). This page is information, not legal advice.